When it comes to achieving goals, people tend to make two common mistakes. The first is focusing solely on the end goal and blindly applying familiar default strategies without considering their suitability. The second is persistently sticking to a chosen method, with no periodic review or adjustment during the process, leading to a loss of control and an unmet objective. Such mistakes can lead to frustration, unhappiness, and the exhausting cycle of having to start over.
So how can we avoid these pitfalls? How can we adapt our strategy for more effective results?
A crucial aspect lies in adjusting our mindset. This simple shift can make a world of difference:
1. Goal Adaptability: Remember that goals aren't set in stone. If, during the process, you discover the goal is irrelevant or less valuable than initially thought, don't hesitate to abandon or adjust it. Set your sights on your newly defined objective.
2. Method Flexibility: Similarly, the method isn't unalterable. It's merely a means to an end, and it should be reviewed and adjusted as necessary at any stage of the process. If a strategy proves to be ineffective, promptly change it. In reality, methods often require more frequent alterations than we anticipate. Remember, successfully executing a method does not automatically equate to achieving the goal. And attaining a goal doesn't necessarily mean you're closer to your dream.
But how do we know when to change a goal? The answer lies in your vision. Vision is your long-term roadmap, not the goal itself. Goals are milestones on that roadmap, markers that need reevaluation. We all understand that multiple paths can lead to the same destination. It's the same with visions and goals. If you realize the path you're on isn't leading you towards your destination, change the route.
In summary: Maintain a clear vision. Adjust goals as necessary. Regularly evaluate and tweak the methods you're using to achieve your goals.
Lastly, it's essential to remember that our brains are inherently lazy (as outlined in the acclaimed book "Thinking, Fast and Slow"), and we are all prone to making these mistakes. However, don't let these missteps intimidate you. Learn from them, adjust your approach next time, and you'll gradually become more adept at applying this new mindset.
